Wednesday, September 30, 2009


It's been a stressful week, and it's only going to get worse. I'm dead tired. So all you get this week is a cellphone shot of me before I crawl into bed.

Monday, September 21, 2009

TMI Tuesday

1. You can flip a switch that will wipe any band or musical artist out of existence. Which one will it be?

Long weekend

It's been a long weekend, even if it was only 2 days. My mom went on a cleaning binge, which meant the whole family spent hours upon hours cleaning the house. After she got that out of her system, we went to the animal shelter to visit the dog we're adopting on Tuesday. (they're making us wait until they've neutered him; understandable, but we're impatient!) Then I went to our town's Harvest Festival with my boyfriend.

And got food poisoning.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

My Dad’s Going to Become My Mom

My first article on EdenCafe is now up! The series is called "Loving a Transgendered Parent" because so often families are torn apart by a member coming out as transgendered. We're one of the few that hasn't. Working through it is a long, hard road, but we're in it together.

This first article is, appropriately, on how I first found out that . ..

"My dear father isn’t, should have been, maybe someday will be, a woman."

It's a much more personal story than I'd planned on telling when I offered to write these articles. On the other hand, writing it has also been one of the most healing things I've done since I found out. I hope that, in reading it, people can begin to understand, and to empathize with Transgendered people and their families.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009


When I took this picture for HNT, I didn't realize that there had been a sort of theme these past two weeks. (I'm rather new to HNT, and I'm still figuring things out) Last week, many people did a "Flaws HNT" and I guess I missed the memo on that one. As a foil to the flaws theme, many people are doing a "Favorite Body Part" theme this week. Unwittingly, I partially fulfilled the theme.

While it may come as no shock that my boobs are one of my favorite body parts, another is my shoulders. I love my delicate little shoulders. I was playing with the lens on the camera, experimenting with soft focus.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009


This morning seemed like a nice day when I first woke up, but nothing really special. The weather is lovely, but I had a killer class later that evening. Then I checked my email, and WOW! The sex toy Santa over at has done it again. What could better than waking up to an email asking you to review a lovely ceramic toy? Duncan Charles Designs may be new to the sex toy world, but their ceramic dildos are lovely, and have some of the most interesting designs I've seen in ceramic yet! They also seem to be more affordable than many ceramic toys (Goldfrau, anyone?).

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Review: Dual Climax

When I first set eyes on the Dual Climax by WHK GmbH, I was unimpressed. It looked like an inexpensive set of bullets, and how much can I say about those? A lot more than I thought.

Thursday, September 10, 2009


Ever wonder where the Luscious in my name came from?
I point you now to exhibit A, this week's HNT...

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Dangerous Lilly's Pure Wand Contest

Lilly, of, is giving away an Njoy Pure Wand courtesy of EdenFantasys! The Pure Wand is a high-quality stainless steel double-ended dildo for either G-spot stimulation or prostate stimulation. It is 24 ounces of solid medical grade stainless steel, and polished to a mirror shine. Lilly loves her Pure Wand and wants to spread the love to one lucky winner!

To enter the contest just visit her blog to find out the rules and entry methods. You can enter even if you don’t have a blog, it’s easy! The contest deadline is September 16th, 2009, at Midnight Eastern Standard Time.

A little teaser for this week's Sex and the Suburbs

The last relationship I had before I met my husband was with a woman. I suppose that makes me how does that translate into the marriage?